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Our Romeo part one

Twelve and a half years ago, the holidays found us in challenging times. Our youngest daughter was struggling. In that season, our world revolved around her. We were desperate to find something that would help her.

Three days before Christmas, we received an email from the Animal Rescue League of Boston, whom we had been fostering for off and on. They had a dog in the shelter named Violet. Violet was pregnant and due any day. The shelter would be on a skeleton crew over the holidays, and they wondered….would we foster her?

We had a full life. Five kids between the ages of 19 and 11. It was Christmas. The house was bursting with activity, decorations, and busyness. Who in their right mind would say yes to this?!

We couldn’t help but wonder, though….could this pregnant dog, bursting with life inside her, help our daughter? Could this experience provide her with a distraction, a focus, or a purpose?

We said yes.

On December 26th, just past midnight, Violet gave birth. We watched five beautiful puppies be born. The second one out was so big we thought it was twins. It was not. But it was the dog that would become our Romeo.

For 8 weeks, those puppies stayed with us. We really liked two of them, but my husband and I were determined to not keep any of them. We had recently put one of our dogs down and still had another dog at home. We brought them back when they were finally ready for their forever homes. All of them.

Our daughter had been working on us, though. There was one in particular who had stolen her heart. We called the shelter. “Wait…” we said. “We want that one back.”

And so Romeo came back home, only leaving us long enough to be neutered. Romeo and our daughter grew up together. She overcame her struggles, and Romeo was a big part of that journey. We will always be grateful for the gift we were given that Christmas. A perfect little puppy who made all of our lives better. Our Romeo.

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5 thoughts on “Our Romeo part one

  1. Adele Travisano's avatar Adele Travisano says:

    Beth, so beautiful a story. Dogs are often healers.

    Beth, I’m asking for prayers because I believe that your prayers will help because you’re special. Life has thrown us a gut punch. Our beloved son-in-law has been diagnosed with an inoperable cancerous brain tumor. But it is treatable. The doc is still waiting for the final biopsy before he can come up with a treatment plan. The waiting is hard. Pray for us,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,love, Del XO

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    • Adele I can only begin to imagine the distress that this is causing your family! You have my commitment to be praying for your son-in-law, your daughter, you, Dennis , and every person that this news affects. We serve a God who can do mighty and miraculous things. Praying! ❤️

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  2. Adele Travisano's avatar Adele Travisano says:

    Beth, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your response and for your prayers. I had not been able to cry yet about Guido, but now as I write this, I am sobbing, something I have felt desperately that I needed to do. Bless you, Beth.

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  3. Adele Travisano's avatar Adele Travisano says:

    Beth, I also want to comment on the piece about your uncle. It’s perfect.
    The same has sort of thing happened in my extended family from Waterbury Connecticut, now living in various parts of New England. When all of the older generation had passed away, all the cousins made an effort to get together every year.

    And now that some of my generation have passed away, the younger generation has made an effort too. Lucy, our daughter, and her husband, Guido, hosted a family reunion two summers ago in which the younger generation traveled from all parts of the country to attend.

    Thank you so much, Beth, for writing about the strength of the love of family. Now with the reality of Guido’s illness upon us, the family is right there with support and love.

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